Guided self-reflection journals for the thoughts, patterns, and choices that quietly keep you stuck. Journals for the pattern. Words for the in-between.
Thirteen sets of twenty honest prompts, one for each journal. Pick one, write for five minutes, and see what turns up.
My attention belonged to my phone, to the news, and to what other people might think of me. I was busy, and I was absent from my own life.
In 2019, something shifted. I started to pay less attention to what someone would think of me, and more to what I wanted, and my life began to move in the direction I had been picturing for years. I am sure there are many people like me, struggling with their health, their money, their relationships or their work. These journals are my way of passing that on, a few honest minutes at a time.
I paid less attention to what someone would think of me, and more to what I wanted. The shift that changed things for me
Thirteen journals. Twelve are about your own pattern, each one a different angle on the same question: noticing what is running underneath, so you can choose what runs your life. The thirteenth is one to give to someone else.
See every journal → Not sure? Take the two-minute quiz → Or start from a question →
An eight-week guided journal for closing the gap between what you want and what you do. Three short lines a day, and one small, honest step.
Newest: What Deserves My Yes and The Ideas I Keep Quiet, both out now.
A 90-day guided journal to map your thoughts, understand your emotions, and slowly loosen the patterns that run you on autopilot.
This is the journal the others grow from: track the pattern, name it, choose a different response. If 90 days feels like a lot, The Pattern Interrupt runs the same idea in 30.
Would you rather start from what you are going through? Start from a question or take the two-minute quiz.
Everything I Noticed And Never Said is the first in a new series — a journal you keep in secret about someone else, then give away. Out now in paperback.
Shorter reflections on patterns, habits, and the small moments where you catch yourself on autopilot — the thinking behind the journal.
Read the blog →Most of us live on autopilot — the same thoughts, the same triggers, the same stories, day after day. My journals are built to help you track that pattern on paper. The blog is where I think out loud about the same thing, one small observation at a time.